Wednesday, December 10, 2008

why unhappy

Why 80% people are unhappy. No kidding it's real 80% population is unhappy.Reason could be quite differrent but the net result is the same.
Let's take a quick look into our life.Don't you think you felt unhappy 40 to 60% of the day. Work, family,society
so on give us enough reason to be unhappy.
As Gautham budha said unhappiness or dissatisfaction in other words comes directly from expectation.When we expect something and we fail to get it we are dissatisfied with the surroundings and it cause unhappiness.
Kids are unhappy for they feel their parents nor the teachers understand them.They expect them to behave as they want them to be.
Parents are tormented by the indifferrent behaviour of kids and complain that they don't listen to.
Teachers are unhappy of the disrespect shown by the students.
But let me ask you one question have you ever thought about it putting yourself in their shoes.Kids who accuse their parent of being irky become more intolerable when they become parent.
The parents on the other hand did almost the same thing in their childhood but conveniently disregard it.
Teachers only lament about the student's behaviour never take pain to understand why they behave that way.
Though being the custodians of ethics & moral teachings they seem to ignore the fact that respect is not granted nor taken it is gained through your goodwill and fair deeds.
So the problem is not with the just the generation but with the root of mankind.People consider themselves as the greatest human being and most learned person on earth. They pretend to outsmart others.
My point is that it is easy to be unhappy because people are more comfortable with it.
But to be happy is a real fight.And if a person is comfortable with not being unhappy the society is not comfortable with it.
Did you know the fact that unhappiness can give you a heartattack unbelievable isn't it ? But it's true,unhappiness can cause you dipression,low BP and so many other ailments related to it.
So folks it is better to be happy even though there is no much things to cheer about.
Like smile for the blue sky filled with snow like clouds.Smile for the wonderful person in you whom you never met before.Smile for the all good and bad things in life for that keeps up the balance .
Realise that happiness and unhappiness is a state of mind you create yourself so it is you who can manipulate it very well.
So let's chill and be happy.Cheer to the happy life.